Does an object without a functional purpose have any value? What is the meaning of an object without a purpose? Is existence alone, barely detectable, a relatively high value meaning?
What about a human being? Without a functional utility, without some final cause (beyond the material, formal, and efficient causes), your life has less meaning. You need an aim, with clearly defined goals, frequently updated long and short term plans, and a direction you are moving (hopefully, one that helps you become your ideal future self).
Is your life descriptive only? ..just a declarative or exclamatory and patience-testing long self-sympathetic rant? ..is it a self-righteous imperative, going around with an authoritative air, preaching a comprehensive, sufficient, and interrogative one-size-fits-all solution?
Obviously, the material, formal, and efficient causes for an object or event, provide little functional meaning which is relatively important. To give your life the most meaning, it should have a functional purpose, aimed at precisely targeted goals, clearly defined objectives, in other words, a final cause and aim. In fact, you might as well write up a detailed plan, if that helps, with long and short term progress markers, leading up to your vision of success in your mission, although, the best missions have no end (eg., success is in the how, the process = the means, not the end).
You do not need to have “utility” for your life to be meaningful. You do not need happiness for your life to be meaningful. You do not need approval, for your life to be meaningful. If your heart and mind are resolutely committed to the chosen purpose of your life, and you live every day faithful to that purpose, intentionally and with vigor, then your life will be meaningful to you.
If the purpose you choose is noble, virtuous, or altruistic, then you are likely to have deep inner happiness (self-approval, self-acceptance, self-contentment), as well as a good chance of living a life that is meaningful to others, and more likely to live a life that is of great utility.
The most important truth about a human life, is that it needs a purpose, in order to be meaningful. The second most important truth is that one should intentionally, carefully, wisely CHOOSE how to live one’s life. The process, methods, and course one takes, in the pursuit of your purpose and mission, will determine not only the degree of success in that purpose (and thusly, the value or meaning of one’s life), but this will also greatly impact the effects upon your own character development — in other words, WHO you are becoming. By choosing each day, the principles and values by which you will hold yourself accountable to, with great self-discipline, vigor, determination, and fierce persistence, will define the details of your true nature, the essence and substance of your humanity, and whether you are progressing toward your own ideal future self. These two truths are so inter-dependent upon each other, that they cannot be separated or fully discriminated, when deconstructing the historical record and impact of a human life.
That my friend, is the meaning of life.