Paul’s Blog

Often times when men and women begin discussions about commitment in relationships, there seems to be a trend:  someone eventually brings up the idea that men hurt women so they are shy to emotionally open up again.  Another idea that is likely to arise is that men enjoy freedom to go places and have some [...]

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Evolutionarily (reproductive survival) you’d expect females (min 9 mo investment per child) to be worried about partners ‘falling in love’ with others – because of a great investment and committment per child. Male romantic (but not necessarily sexual) cheating potentially diverts resources to other women’s kids. Males on the other hand, would be expected to [...]

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The brain during orgasm looks like its on heroin; “95 percent is the same” http://tr.im/jC4I Race-based rejections insult & violence (by a few remaining Neanderthals) profoundly shape us. Which will win long-term? Heroin or Rage? Children are malleable as water before a freeze, but narrow depending on environment. We (all living things) are brothers, our [...]

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